>However, it is also the case that sometimes the person on the other side is not well-motivated Correct! There are some people fortunately < 5% from what I can

>However, it is also the case that sometimes the person on the other side is not well-motivated Correct! There are some people fortunately < 5% from what I can tell who are mal-adaptive and sometimes mal-adaptive and intelligent. That's a different ball game indeed.