> (though if I have kids, they will be) Not a parent, but I think the best thing you can do for your kids is to lead a good life yourself -- where good is by y

> (though if I have kids, they will be) Not a parent, but I think the best thing you can do for your kids is to lead a good life yourself -- where good is by your own standards. > I feel like I have a lot of catching up to do. I must say -- you describe your skills similarly to most people I know who are seriously good. Really good people recognize there's a lot of stuff out there they don't know and would benefit from learning.