My advice to avoid issues like this is to focus on being aware of why you’re reply is reasonable, your emotional state as it relates to the reply - and what rea

My advice to avoid issues like this is to focus on being aware of why you’re reply is reasonable, your emotional state as it relates to the reply - and what reasoning you might present as to why you expect the receiver or others readers of the response to benefit from your reply. Beyond that, trying to separate online from offline identities can be a factor. If using different identities, establish why you’re doing this prior to doing so in an ad-hoc instance, and then, make sure you’re not departing from that reasoning or the sum of yourself regardless of the identity presented.