As already stated, it's not your fault, and honestly the tip of the iceberg of this problem is that such illnesses are not even considered as such by society at

As already stated, it's not your fault, and honestly the tip of the iceberg of this problem is that such illnesses are not even considered as such by society at large. My eldest daughter, that is an incredible bright and intelligent person was just where you are early January this year with her partner. I eventually got tired of telling people that he was sick, that he was not to blame for his actions. And even rationalizing this is very difficult to not feel otherwise. Stay strong, seek company, don't blame yourself.