I'm saying this earnestly and with care: The first priority should be finding out what is right for yourself. Ultimately, no one can tell you what is right fo

I'm saying this earnestly and with care: The first priority should be finding out what is right for yourself. Ultimately, no one can tell you what is right for you. Hacker news is a good place to reflect, but hopefully you can read things without having your whole mental framework being disrupted by one article with a different perspective.