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I wonder if the same effect holds true if a team is made up of mostly confident/brash people, or if safety-to-project-yourself can be trained and elevated indep

I wonder if the same effect holds true if a team is made up of mostly confident/brash people, or if safety-to-project-yourself can be trained and elevated independent of any other aspect of social environment. Maybe improv classes or subsidizing employees to exhibit art or publicly perform music?

asdfman123 6y ago
False dichotomy. You can be confident, brash, and rude to each other all day long, as long as everyone is in on it and everyone is socially intelligent enough to know each other's boundaries. The problem is when people tell themselves "that's just how I am" and don't have a high enough EQ to notice that they're coming across as jerks. Everyone is different and everyone requires a personal touch. It's important for people to understand how to get along with those who aren't exactly like them.
- gramontblanc 6y ago
  Didn't mean to assert a dichotomy, more wondering whether the size of the effect of importance of emotional safety for expressive freedom varies with some kind of external measure of confidence
cutemonster 6y ago
> Maybe improv classes or ... Some ppl have a whole life behind them with insecurities and bullying and traumas, and ... Itll be hard for improv classes for a week to have much effect compared to that But still it's an interesting idea, I suppose if the more shy ppl in the company got to do impro, that'd be good for the company (and them too)
- gramontblanc 6y ago
  If it has an effect it could be worth pursuing just to measure the size of the effect. If perfection isn't needed, "good enough" might be better.
  - cutemonster 6y ago
    Yes, and maybe practicing public speaking can make [those who otherwise might not say anything], participate more in meetings and letting others hear their good ideas + Can be teambuilding too
circlefavshape 6y ago
There are plenty of shy musicians and theatre performers. When you're on stage you've been explicitly given permission to perform a role, makes it possible for people to put their shyness aside Maybe the improv world is different, I've never done improv (yet)

asdfman123 6y ago

False dichotomy. You can be confident, brash, and rude to each other all day long, as long as everyone is in on it and everyone is socially intelligent enough to know each other's boundaries. The problem is when people tell themselves "that's just how I am" and don't have a high enough EQ to notice that they're coming across as jerks. Everyone is different and everyone requires a personal touch. It's important for people to understand how to get along with those who aren't exactly like them.

gramontblanc 6y ago
Didn't mean to assert a dichotomy, more wondering whether the size of the effect of importance of emotional safety for expressive freedom varies with some kind of external measure of confidence

cutemonster 6y ago

> Maybe improv classes or ... Some ppl have a whole life behind them with insecurities and bullying and traumas, and ... Itll be hard for improv classes for a week to have much effect compared to that But still it's an interesting idea, I suppose if the more shy ppl in the company got to do impro, that'd be good for the company (and them too)

gramontblanc 6y ago
If it has an effect it could be worth pursuing just to measure the size of the effect. If perfection isn't needed, "good enough" might be better.
- cutemonster 6y ago
  Yes, and maybe practicing public speaking can make [those who otherwise might not say anything], participate more in meetings and letting others hear their good ideas + Can be teambuilding too

circlefavshape 6y ago

There are plenty of shy musicians and theatre performers. When you're on stage you've been explicitly given permission to perform a role, makes it possible for people to put their shyness aside Maybe the improv world is different, I've never done improv (yet)