Not OP, but I’ll give it a go: Conway's law is an adage stating that organizations design systems that mirror their own communication structure. In a sense, y

Not OP, but I’ll give it a go: Conway's law is an adage stating that organizations design systems that mirror their own communication structure. In a sense, your own self is an organisation whereby we communicate with ourselves in fearful and anxious ways, so the systems we build can only be a reflection of that fear and anxiety.