That is a different debate entirely. To what degree people need to alter behavior to "fit in" varies widely. To be an executive in corporate America, you need

That is a different debate entirely. To what degree people need to alter behavior to "fit in" varies widely. To be an executive in corporate America, you need to learn corporate speak and use it, for example. No one running a Fortune 500 company speaks like they are from the Ozarks. Society needs some conformity to function, there will never be a utopia where this doesn't happen.