Not the parent, but I've been running Windows for decades on multiple machines (4 different ones at this time) - never once had an update brick a system. You s

Not the parent, but I've been running Windows for decades on multiple machines (4 different ones at this time) - never once had an update brick a system. You seem to be assuming everyone else is frequently having a problem because you have had it. In reality, these events are rare, which the overwhelming majority of people not having any issue.