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It can also be a superpower, to raise issues across boundaries that most people give up and submit to silently. If you're wrong, the backlash prevents much dama
by loopz 6y ago
It can also be a superpower, to raise issues across boundaries that most people give up and submit to silently. If you're wrong, the backlash prevents much damage and everyone learns something "new". In many cases, the boundaries are self-sabotage and immaturity, ie. org silos.
- watwut 6y agoIt is superpower when you know where and when to use it for benefit. That is pretty much opposite of autism, where the person is using it randomly and often to personal loss. > If you're wrong, the backlash prevents much damage and everyone learns something "new". Backslash gets autistic bullied in retaliation. Often by people who perceive autistic to be bully and feel righteous in "self defense". > In many cases, the boundaries are self-sabotage and immaturity, ie. org silos. I meant personal boundaries. The set of limits healthy people impose on themselves and the world around them. They define responsibilities, what’s acceptable treatment and what isn’t. How you don't allow others to take advantage of you or manipulate you. The boundaries are healthy and not immature at all. People who dont have them end up being treated badly and prime target for narcissists and such.
- loopz 6y agoBeing human is being of service. But it's mostly learned behaviour, or need some guidance. Personal boundaries can also be learned. Surrounding oneself with people of best intentions can unlock much human potential. Though there's limited attention to distribute, so net can't be cast too broadly.