This would seem to line up with some old wisdom I heard years ago, where some researcher interviewed elders and found that his subjects regretted chances they h

This would seem to line up with some old wisdom I heard years ago, where some researcher interviewed elders and found that his subjects regretted chances they had not taken far more than chances they had taken, even if it didn't work out. That idea was a big focus of mine as I tried to get over fear in dating.