I would advice to get a hold on the book "The inner game of tennis", which is, exactly like it sounds, a book on tennis training. Except when it's not. It hol

I would advice to get a hold on the book "The inner game of tennis", which is, exactly like it sounds, a book on tennis training. Except when it's not. It hold advices that can be generalized to improve your ability to learn without using analysis and develop natural actions in a given field. Apply it to social interactions. Those are much better for everyone involved when you mostly instinctively react, yet subtly adjust using logic, not the opposite.