yes, emotional content matters and we should try to be empathetic and compassionate, but the flip side of that is that (a primary marker of) maturation is the d

yes, emotional content matters and we should try to be empathetic and compassionate, but the flip side of that is that (a primary marker of) maturation is the development of coping mechanisms to deal with anger and the underlying fear that fuels it, rather than mainly relying on others to kid-glove each other. and it’s both, not one or the other.