It's a good impulse, and almost certainly more productive, but aren't we still left with how to deal with people holding (and especially acting on) totally coun

It's a good impulse, and almost certainly more productive, but aren't we still left with how to deal with people holding (and especially acting on) totally counterfactual beliefs? I would like them feel heard, but without encouraging them to actually harm other people (which fits with the 'cheating spouse' analogy I'd say).