> No details were included, neither emotional nor technical nor interests. Which worked out great, because otherwise most answers would have been specific to O

> No details were included, neither emotional nor technical nor interests. Which worked out great, because otherwise most answers would have been specific to OP's emotions and interests and probably wouldn't be that useful to other people. Questions like this don't get upvoted because of the effort put into them. They get upvoted because of the answers they attract. I'm fine with that if it means I get to read some interesting answers.