> [...] disarmingly arrogant, condescending in subtle ways [...] Nice guy equivalent: playful teasing and flirting. Someone eavesdropping might even take it ou

> [...] disarmingly arrogant, condescending in subtle ways [...] Nice guy equivalent: playful teasing and flirting. Someone eavesdropping might even take it out of context and interpret it as arrogant or condescending but it's just a little game -- not in some "pick up artist" sense; it's ideally very natural. Works for me. While we can argue all day long about what makes for the most desirable man, I still contend that you can have more (desirable) women want you than you could possibly ever get around to and be a nice guy.