I probably wouldn’t call it an error and say “having kids needs to be” rather than “having kids is”. It’s reasonable to speak inside the inside the big walls s

I probably wouldn’t call it an error and say “having kids needs to be” rather than “having kids is”. It’s reasonable to speak inside the inside the big walls society puts up without specifying so. Unless you’re willing to go to the extreme of somehow going off the grid and home schooling (and god forbid you have health care issues, for example), it’s just the way it is.