Wow, that is so me. Couldn't wait to get kids in university, just didn't have a partner to do it with. When I met my partner, our lives were not stable enough t

Wow, that is so me. Couldn't wait to get kids in university, just didn't have a partner to do it with. When I met my partner, our lives were not stable enough to support kids in a monetary and emotional sense. Not that we are, I'm mid thirties, see the lack of sleep of friends that do have kids and seriously doubt whether it is worth it. Somehow I feel we've designed the way we do careers to oppose certain natural processes. I'm not even female, I can't imagine how much uphill the battle is for them.