As a parent who loves their kid, and having waited and planned before going into it, I encourage anyone who doesn't 100% want a kid to not have any, and applaud

As a parent who loves their kid, and having waited and planned before going into it, I encourage anyone who doesn't 100% want a kid to not have any, and applaud them for it. We need <some> kids, but neither the kid, the parent nor the world will be better off by having kids whom the parents didn't want. I imagine a vanishingly small amount of parents would say they regret having kids post-fact, but it's fairly obvious who were mentally prepared (and willing) and who weren't, when meeting other parents.