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I think the opposite, in average attractive people tend to have better personalities because they have received a great feedback their whole life and this allow

I think the opposite, in average attractive people tend to have better personalities because they have received a great feedback their whole life and this allows them to take more social risks, be more outgoing, practice more. If you know or talk to an attractive young woman you will notice that from her POV the world is usually filled with nice people who smile a lot and have 0 problems in accommodating her. Sure, some may be reasonably fed-up with all the unwanted attention, but all of them prefer that to the alternative.

kbenson 6y ago
It's entirely possible it's both. It could be that attractive people are able to get away with more, and if this is applied towards getting away with bad behavior it will reinforce that, and if it's applied towards being comfortable and getting along with people, it will reinforce that. Predisposition and circumstance probably has a lot to do with it. > If you know or talk to an attractive young woman you will notice that from her POV the world is usually filled with nice people who smile a lot and have 0 problems in accommodating her. Sometimes people that live this are oblivious that others do not live this, and that in itself may be seen as, and may be being an asshole. "I don't know why you get speeding tickets, you must just be being mean to the police officer. I'm just nice to the officer and they always let me go, so it must be something you're doing..."
- croissants 6y ago
  This is why the best path is to be pretty average-looking into your 20s (so you receive middle-of-the-road treatment and are neither beaten down nor coddled) and then just blossom (so you can enjoy the benefits of being attractive but know what exists outside of them).