Some so called 'assholes' are in fact really good mirrors and amplifiers of our existing insecurities. Is it fun when someone is able to 'push our buttons' and

Some so called 'assholes' are in fact really good mirrors and amplifiers of our existing insecurities. Is it fun when someone is able to 'push our buttons' and make us feel worthless? Rarely. Is it useful to further explore why it made us uncomfortable? Always. I am not preaching that you should tolerate abuse, far from it. But you should be aware of your own dark side and recognize it for what it is.