There is a conflict of interests: -- as a society we should strive for what Warren buffet calls "lottery of birth" [1]. Egalitarian society will better maximiz

There is a conflict of interests: -- as a society we should strive for what Warren buffet calls "lottery of birth" [1]. Egalitarian society will better maximize utility of it's gifted population. -- as individuals we try to game the system in order to give our children & filmy, friends a lag up. So we want meritocracy and egalitarianism from everyone while practicing nepotism for our close ones. [1] https://www.getrichslowly.org/warren-buffett-on-the-lottery-of-birth/ https://www.getrichslowly.org/warren-buffett-on-the-lottery-...