Everyone wants to forgive and forget, but I don't think human beings in general are capable of forgiveness unless there is acceptance of what went wrong and som

Everyone wants to forgive and forget, but I don't think human beings in general are capable of forgiveness unless there is acceptance of what went wrong and some sense of resolution, so trust can be rebuilt. The issue of "what went wrong" is under dispute. Dealing with that is the first step to "where to go from here".