You're in a catch-22. For an entrepreneurial start-up government (which by the way sounds indistinguishable from aristocracy) to happen per any rules you're eve

You're in a catch-22. For an entrepreneurial start-up government (which by the way sounds indistinguishable from aristocracy) to happen per any rules you're even remotely used to, you have to have a civil and trustworthy government. Such a government has enough power that it's not going to cede power to any other government. Any start-up government that poses a real threat to a current government, is by definition a movement of sedition that's attempting an overthrow. There is no possible way to avoid violence with your idea. The only chance of a non-violent revolution is to use the amendment process of the existing systems, even if that is a completely new constitution (state by state and federal). If the ideas you have are so weak and unpersuasive that you can't convince 3/4's of the country, you definitely have opted for violent revolution.