It's inevitable, there is no need to feel guilty about it. It's kind of an extreme form of vegetarianism if somebody doesn't show suffering because he fears th

It's inevitable, there is no need to feel guilty about it. It's kind of an extreme form of vegetarianism if somebody doesn't show suffering because he fears that others would suffer from compassion. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Whoever suffers with you doesn't mind the suffering.