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> I think the larger problem is the degree to which men refuse to engage women in a substantive intellectual fashion. First statement is a generalization acros
by maxcan 6y ago
> I think the larger problem is the degree to which men refuse to engage women in a substantive intellectual fashion.
First statement is a generalization across 50% of the population.
> I appear to be the highest ranked woman on HN. I've been here over a decade. It continues to be the case that most men don't really want to talk much with me unless they are hitting on me.
Second comment is decrying the fact that the population broadly smeared in the first comment does not want to engage with you.
I can only speak for myself, but the only times that I’ve ever been aware of the gender of a commenter are incredibly rare and only when I recognize the username as that of a personal friend of mine. In general, I’m pretty confident that the gender of a commenter on HN has no effect on how I reply to them for the simple reason that I’m almost always ignorant of it.
In your case, its possible that the mindset expressed in your first sentence contributes to the phenomenon or perception of the phenomenon in the second.
edit before anyone turns this into career suicide for me, I’m not saying that there is a link. I’m just observing the possibility
- DoreenMichele 6y agoIn general, I’m pretty confident that the gender of a commenter on HN has no effect on how I reply to them You and I are talking about two different things. But I said I was stepping away from this conversation, so I will leave it that.