I find the whole thing narcissistic, shallow, and distasteful. HOWEVER, that is part of the cost of a free society (as much as we are). People are free to make

I find the whole thing narcissistic, shallow, and distasteful. HOWEVER, that is part of the cost of a free society (as much as we are). People are free to make mistakes. My problem with this is how it's marketed. I happen to have found myself single earlier this year... and I would say 80% of the traffic on dating sites is these onlyfans/snapchat folks. The rest of the split is outright scammers and the occasional lonely heart peppered in. The dating sites have a symbiotic relationship with these folks-- they need someone to draw users/payers in and this is the way to do it with the most plausible deniability. Some dating sites are way more guilty than others, with a few being outright scams in my opinion (Hily is one that's a scam).