This. I feel I should be pushing the schooling and learning harder, but my wife is leaning hard into their emotional well being first. And watching my middle

This. I feel I should be pushing the schooling and learning harder, but my wife is leaning hard into their emotional well being first. And watching my middle daughter teach our youngest how to say "i feel" during an argument and not "you did" means I need to back off. I might even be growing as a parent too.