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I keep reading your comment because it seems intense and sincere, and ... I don't know what you mean. What's the difference? I mean, like being under rubble in

by ci5er 6y ago

I keep reading your comment because it seems intense and sincere, and ... I don't know what you mean. What's the difference? I mean, like being under rubble in Battery Park after 9-11, waiting 3 days for the people to dig you out as your batteries die is stressful, but that's not really the same as hiding from a virus that won't kill you, is it? EDIT: Re-reading my comment, that 2nd paragraph sounds snarky. It wasn't intended to be. I guess I just don't understand your comment. Would you be kind enough to clarify my mind? :-)

sigstoat 6y ago
it might very well kill the person you were responding to, or their loved one were they to bring it home. supposing that's not a concern, and you're not emotionally impacted by the possibility of hundreds of thousands of additional deaths from this, most folks will be stressed out by having their routines disrupted. so now multiply that stuff happening to you, by a factor of it happening to your boss and all of your coworkers, and now everything else is just a bit tougher.
- ci5er 6y ago
  Of course, I am. I have parents and children and neighbors and grandparents and the like. It's not that I don't care - it's that I simply didn't understand the upstream comment. I was asking for clarification on the intended meaning. Please, if you need help, there is the PTSD hotline for people who are having problems dealing with this new-new situation we are going through: 1-800-985-5990
wccrawford 6y ago
My wife always worked from home. But now, she works from home and then can't socialize after hours, except virtually. She can't go anywhere or do anything. Shopping is the only time she gets out, but she didn't like it before and now it's even more stressful. The difference (unless you have kids or a noisy house) isn't the home bit, it's the not-home bit. For people who aren't introverts, this is a very, very tough time. Their basic needs aren't being met. I'm lucky that I'm an introvert. This has been a pretty good experience for me. I have no commute, I get more done in the same 8 hours, and all my socializing can be done in my own home. I miss going places a tiny bit, but only the places that have things I can't do at home. (I'm talking Disney World here.)
- ci5er 6y ago
  Thanks!
kuu 6y ago
The difference, at least for me, it's that I'm more worried for several other things than work and I cannot be as productive as I was before. Also some people have kids at home because schools are closed; my SO for instance is also at home, while usually she's not, and the apartment is not bigger now that we're two; sometimes I need to go to the grocery at specific time because otherwise is crowded... And even worse, as other comment mentioned, some people would have sick family and / or friends. There are many things that make this situation different than a "regular day working from home".
- ci5er 6y ago
  Thank you! EDIT: You said: "I'm more worried for several other things than work and I cannot be as productive as I was before." This makes sense - I have some acquaintances who have parents locked up in long-term care facilities that they haven't seen since February - and this is taxing both the parents and the kids/grandkids that can't see them. You (also)said: "There are many things that make this situation different than a "regular day working from home"." You bring up several good points. I was focused on the "working from home" part, I've actually been more concerned about the funemployment people, for which I do food-bank work (Whole Foods, HEB (it's a grocery store in Texas) and Bank of America (who would have thunk?) have all been very very generous), but there are other "factions" of people with other concerns that my brain was kind of glossing over somehow. I already said "Thank You", but I really do appreciate your clarification. It broke open some blocked thinking pathways for me.
  - kuu 6y ago
    No problem ;)

by ci5er 6y ago

sigstoat 6y ago

it might very well kill the person you were responding to, or their loved one were they to bring it home. supposing that's not a concern, and you're not emotionally impacted by the possibility of hundreds of thousands of additional deaths from this, most folks will be stressed out by having their routines disrupted. so now multiply that stuff happening to you, by a factor of it happening to your boss and all of your coworkers, and now everything else is just a bit tougher.

ci5er 6y ago
Of course, I am. I have parents and children and neighbors and grandparents and the like. It's not that I don't care - it's that I simply didn't understand the upstream comment. I was asking for clarification on the intended meaning. Please, if you need help, there is the PTSD hotline for people who are having problems dealing with this new-new situation we are going through: 1-800-985-5990

wccrawford 6y ago

My wife always worked from home. But now, she works from home and then can't socialize after hours, except virtually. She can't go anywhere or do anything. Shopping is the only time she gets out, but she didn't like it before and now it's even more stressful. The difference (unless you have kids or a noisy house) isn't the home bit, it's the not-home bit. For people who aren't introverts, this is a very, very tough time. Their basic needs aren't being met. I'm lucky that I'm an introvert. This has been a pretty good experience for me. I have no commute, I get more done in the same 8 hours, and all my socializing can be done in my own home. I miss going places a tiny bit, but only the places that have things I can't do at home. (I'm talking Disney World here.)

ci5er 6y ago
Thanks!

kuu 6y ago

The difference, at least for me, it's that I'm more worried for several other things than work and I cannot be as productive as I was before. Also some people have kids at home because schools are closed; my SO for instance is also at home, while usually she's not, and the apartment is not bigger now that we're two; sometimes I need to go to the grocery at specific time because otherwise is crowded... And even worse, as other comment mentioned, some people would have sick family and / or friends. There are many things that make this situation different than a "regular day working from home".

ci5er 6y ago
Thank you! EDIT: You said: "I'm more worried for several other things than work and I cannot be as productive as I was before." This makes sense - I have some acquaintances who have parents locked up in long-term care facilities that they haven't seen since February - and this is taxing both the parents and the kids/grandkids that can't see them. You (also)said: "There are many things that make this situation different than a "regular day working from home"." You bring up several good points. I was focused on the "working from home" part, I've actually been more concerned about the funemployment people, for which I do food-bank work (Whole Foods, HEB (it's a grocery store in Texas) and Bank of America (who would have thunk?) have all been very very generous), but there are other "factions" of people with other concerns that my brain was kind of glossing over somehow. I already said "Thank You", but I really do appreciate your clarification. It broke open some blocked thinking pathways for me.
- kuu 6y ago
  No problem ;)