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Ok, without wanting to sound like a crazy guy, this book has really had a large impact on me : https://www.amazon.fr/Finding-Your-Own-North-Star-ebook/dp/B0019O

Ok, without wanting to sound like a crazy guy, this book has really had a large impact on me : https://www.amazon.fr/Finding-Your-Own-North-Star-ebook/dp/B0019O6IXE/ref=sr_1_1?__mk_fr_FR=%C3%85M%C3%85%C5%BD%C3%95%C3%91&dchild=1&keywords=find+your+true+north&qid=1589275099&sr=8-1 https://www.amazon.fr/Finding-Your-Own-North-Star-ebook/dp/B... It's basically a method that helps you find what exactly get you on, what you get energy from, and how to reach it. Of course it requires a lot of introspection but the book helps you there. It sounds cheesy I know, but that book had enough impact that it really changed the way I worked, and make sense of why I was so frustrated at times. Couple months after reading the book, the company I work with offered me a tailored job because I was finally able to clearly communicate what it is that was driving me.

Cthulhu_ 6y ago
A bit of err, self-actualization? Goes a long way. I've been in a similar point, eventually I was offered to go to a career coach. It's basically someone that challenges you about what you want to do, what you want to achieve. And in my case, identify that I'm a people-pleaser, I'd rather defer to others to tell me what to do rather than take my own initiative, because comfort zone, risk, etc.
- jlengrand 6y ago
  Yes, pretty much really. Nothing you couldn't have done by yourself. The book is just helping you along the way to make you realize those things yourself. It sounds like you had a similar experience :) It helped me a lot though. And I'm very surprised to see the amount of people around me that don't know why they are doing what they're doing. That often leads to a lot of frustration. :) Good job!