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A surprising number of people have taken my comment rather personally.
by eganist 6y ago
A surprising number of people have taken my comment rather personally.
- AnimalMuppet 6y agoWell, you know, the way you wrote the comment, it kind of invited us to take it as personal - as applying to ourselves.
- eganist 6y agoMy personal experience led to that assumption; I've never guessed anyone's age wrong by 15 years, hence the example. Sorry it hit you the way it did; wasn't my intent.
- AnimalMuppet 6y agoI don't think we took it "personally" in a way that calls for an apology. I don't think anybody felt accused or anything - just that we are responding literally, noting that some of us are in those circumstances, and aren't reacting the way you said. That's all I meant when I said you invited us to take it personally. I did not at all mean that you gave us grounds for feeling accused or defensive. (But thanks for the non-defensiveness of your reply - this conversation could easily have blown up with you feeling accused by my post, and I would not have known why, because I didn't mean it that way at all - which may mean that I wrote it badly.)