I haven't downvoted you btw, I think you bring up good points with this post. I guess my question is, how do adoptive (i.e., not blood-related) parents fit into

I haven't downvoted you btw, I think you bring up good points with this post. I guess my question is, how do adoptive (i.e., not blood-related) parents fit into your argument? I assume you treat them the same as the blood-related ones, since one of your main points was about reoccurring encounters, which is the aspect that should differ at all between adoptive vs. blood-related? P.S. not trying to argue against your points, I am just trying to clarify, so I can rough out the edges of my understanding of what you said.