Do we just never hear the other side (because there's too many of them and they're too poor to get published)? There's a lot of people who say their parents wi

Do we just never hear the other side (because there's too many of them and they're too poor to get published)? There's a lot of people who say their parents wished they "left a mark" or did something in this world besides enjoying living. My uncle died of cancer, it took all of 8 months (he likely had it for a while by the time they found it). It was horrible for him. By now, I have about 5 people I knew who just died suddenly or very fast, including one who killed themselves. Life is short and unfair, there's no time for negative emotions like hate, feeling sorry for yourself, regretting stuff imo. Just enjoy whatever life you have.