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I dont wanna be rude. But if you cant find words to talk for 2 minutes every 2 days, you are very disconnected.
by johnydepp 6y ago
I dont wanna be rude. But if you cant find words to talk for 2 minutes every 2 days, you are very disconnected.
- exolymph 6y agowtf is the point of a two-minute call? text me
- wuunderbar 6y agoMaybe the other person enjoys being on the phone and hearing your voice.
- InafuSabi 6y agophone calls (POTS voice) are better than text, thats not only my opinion, but also for those on the receiving end of the call
- maximente 6y agotexting isn't ideal because you might get a response in an hour, or two days, or the next minute. there's a lot of value in being fully present for a social interaction: when you're on the phone and paying attention, it's typically a lot more engaging than the other person watching a video, texting 4 other people at the same time, or whatever else people do in between texts.
- airstrike 6y agoThe point is showing you're there for the person, giving them the opportunity to mention something that's on their mind. It's about showing a special sense of availability, contrary to the texting availability that you provide to anyone else on God's green earth that may have your phone number saved or written down somewhere.
- chrisseaton 6y agoMaybe we're so connected that our lives and relationship run smoothly without constantly checking on each other?
- madacoo 6y agoI'd be worried if my wife expected me to call more frequently than that because it would imply our relationship wasn't as solid as I thought it was. Also British. To me a strong relationship is one that lasts across time and physical distance without constant attention. Obviously within limits. But if my wife expected me to call her everyday, or vice versa, I could only assume that there was an insecurity/neediness that hadn't been appropriately handled.