What is "here"? Even for a given culture it varies wildly: my uncle has a call with each of his 5 kids every other day, while I talk to any of my dad, my mom, m

What is "here"? Even for a given culture it varies wildly: my uncle has a call with each of his 5 kids every other day, while I talk to any of my dad, my mom, my grandparents every other month.