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I also struggle with this. I know I can rate the pros/cons of each and tally the points, but I also struggle from deciding which items should be weighed higher

I also struggle with this. I know I can rate the pros/cons of each and tally the points, but I also struggle from deciding which items should be weighed higher than others. I'm also aware that a lot of choices aren't as critical as I make them out to be but I somehow can't seem to get over this mental hurdles. For some background I'm very analytical, precise, and organized and a lot of times I absolutely hate it because it can be debilitating in normal aspects of life as well.

mkaic 7y ago
Agreed. I think stepping back and forcing myself to look at a “big picture” view of my situation and my choices has been helpful for me. It’s like you said, many of your choices probably aren’t as critical as your brain tells you they are—-I know that’s the case for me. A lot of times it really doesn’t matter whether I take path A or path B, as long as I’m still moving forward.