You should read (a synopsis of) The Rules. It's the female equivalent to the PUA craze, and it focuses on consistently acting like a high-value mate. The idea

You should read (a synopsis of) The Rules. It's the female equivalent to the PUA craze, and it focuses on consistently acting like a high-value mate. The idea is that a man with a passing interest in you will slowly convince himself that you are worth striving for and when he finally "wins" your hand he will feel like he has successfully proven himself and earned something he dearly wanted. It's an implementation of the idea that things you work for are dearer to you than things that come your way with little effort. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Rules http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Rules