The thing I dislike the most about other people is often something I do myself. So when dealing with any people-related issues, the first thing I do is reflect

The thing I dislike the most about other people is often something I do myself. So when dealing with any people-related issues, the first thing I do is reflect if it's something I do myself. If it is, then I try to determine if its something I like about myself; if I like it, I try not letting it bother me again; if I don't like it, I change it.