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Not sure I agree with this. I don't want someone to have my back if I'm on the wrong side. I want my SO to challenge my ideas and to help me improve as a person
by ryandvm 6y ago
Not sure I agree with this. I don't want someone to have my back if I'm on the wrong side. I want my SO to challenge my ideas and to help me improve as a person, not to reinforce my bad ideas.
- downerending 6y agoTo me, "having my back" doesn't mean nodding yes to everything. It means starting with the strong assumption that I'm a pretty good guy. It means doing for me what someone who loved me would do. Kind of the opposite of an Internet troll. In any case, it's up to each person to set the mark.