Absolutely. A good book that I read a few years ago is The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane. The premise of the book is that you can learn to be more charisma

Absolutely. A good book that I read a few years ago is The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane. The premise of the book is that you can learn to be more charismatic by working on your mind to cultivate greater confidence, greater warmth and compassion towards others and a greater ability to focus and really pay attention to people. The book presents a lot of techniques to help you do this and I found it to be quite accessible. My life is an awful lot better than it was before as a direct result of my having read it and having worked hard on the exercises that it taught me and I'm very grateful to the person on Hacker News who recommended it to me.