He's not taking it as an attack, he's pointing out that you are assuming that everyone goes through life in this sort of 'morals-lite' way. Many people actuall

He's not taking it as an attack, he's pointing out that you are assuming that everyone goes through life in this sort of 'morals-lite' way. Many people actually do try as hard as possible, wherever practicable to do the right thing, and restrict themselves in the process. The distinctions then become whether they agree on the set of 'bad things', not whether they do them or not. If you think something is bad, like really bad, just stop doing it, you are not some poverty-level sharecropping farmer, you have that choice.