Yes. It's like, if you analyzed reasons for romantic breakups, you might conclude many were "It's not you, it's me". Which is not "the reason" in the strict sen

Yes. It's like, if you analyzed reasons for romantic breakups, you might conclude many were "It's not you, it's me". Which is not "the reason" in the strict sense of a single condition that, if you constructed a counterfactual scenario where it wasn't true, the breakup wouldn't have happened.