Yup, met my wife this way too (OkCupid as well). I in general was very upfront. I didn't try to sell myself much, which meant my flaws in interaction were prese

Yup, met my wife this way too (OkCupid as well). I in general was very upfront. I didn't try to sell myself much, which meant my flaws in interaction were present too. I didn't like the idea of wasting time with people I'd slowly push away as I let my crafted guard down.