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You made the point I wanted to make without sarcasm. Thanks :-)

• Youden 6y ago
  I don't want to sound too preachy but I find it often helps to assume the best of everyone. Most people aren't idiots, they just see things differently sometimes. I thought about it a bit and I think that if you see something you disagree with or think is silly, usually that person either has different priorities to you (e.g. they might work in a document-centric company) or might just not have the same knowledge or experience. Either way, if you state your assumptions (in this case "relational data is important") and ask a question ("how does MongoDB handle this"), you should usually be able to trigger a respectful and productive discussion. Of course sometimes there are just arseholes and trolls on the internet, in which case you can usually tell quickly and stop engaging.