These are all valid complaints and they do happen. 1:1s are really awkward to kick off - I find it takes up to 6 months of regular 1:1s before they feel natural

These are all valid complaints and they do happen. 1:1s are really awkward to kick off - I find it takes up to 6 months of regular 1:1s before they feel natural. They are massive relationship accelerators though. I also push for them not to be a meeting - we go for coffee or taking a 30min walk is very popular. Then it's like an extra, management-approved break!