Just realize you can both be right. Everything you say is true, but parent is also. Confidence and the projection of ability to get the job done is important. A

Just realize you can both be right. Everything you say is true, but parent is also. Confidence and the projection of ability to get the job done is important. Also when you are 40+ chances are you are going to be hired as a senior developer who has influence on team culture, this makes confidence and positivity even more important.