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Ahh, I thought a cosleeper was something to have them actually in the bed with you. That makes sense - we're getting a pack 'n play that includes a raised bassi

Ahh, I thought a cosleeper was something to have them actually in the bed with you. That makes sense - we're getting a pack 'n play that includes a raised bassinet and plan to have him sleep in that next to our bed at first, to avoid having to get up in order to feed him as you mentioned. I've often thought the same thing w/regard to noise and light when sleeping - good to hear confirmation of that. Any guess as to how long we should expect to wait before taking a ~5 hour trip and being gone 3-5 days? What you said regarding sleeping while traveling makes sense, but I'm guessing you don't want to travel too early.

pedoh 16y ago
It's going to vary so much from child to child. This is your first, so you've got a lot to get used to. I think you don't want to travel too early. Sleep is going to be at a premium. Establish your rhythms. Give it six weeks or two months and see what your bodies are telling you. On the other hand, if you have an ailing grandparent who cannot come and see you ... go. I am so glad that my two older children got to meet their paternal grandmother before she passed away. Circumstances will sometimes drive you the way you need to go. Oh, and we haven't talked about cloth vs. disposables, either, right? I had never changed a diaper before our first, and yet I changed all of her diapers in the hospital, and then we used cloth diapers once the umbilical cord had dropped off. I never would have guessed I'd ever be rinsing off cloth diapers in the toilet ... it's another area where I'm sure you can find data about the environmental effects on either side of the fence. One thing I'm convinced of, though, is that when it came time to potty train, the cloth diapers helped, because they don't do as "good" a job at keeping liquid away from the body, so there was a desire on our kids' part to potty train sooner rather than later.

pedoh 16y ago

It's going to vary so much from child to child. This is your first, so you've got a lot to get used to. I think you don't want to travel too early. Sleep is going to be at a premium. Establish your rhythms. Give it six weeks or two months and see what your bodies are telling you. On the other hand, if you have an ailing grandparent who cannot come and see you ... go. I am so glad that my two older children got to meet their paternal grandmother before she passed away. Circumstances will sometimes drive you the way you need to go. Oh, and we haven't talked about cloth vs. disposables, either, right? I had never changed a diaper before our first, and yet I changed all of her diapers in the hospital, and then we used cloth diapers once the umbilical cord had dropped off. I never would have guessed I'd ever be rinsing off cloth diapers in the toilet ... it's another area where I'm sure you can find data about the environmental effects on either side of the fence. One thing I'm convinced of, though, is that when it came time to potty train, the cloth diapers helped, because they don't do as "good" a job at keeping liquid away from the body, so there was a desire on our kids' part to potty train sooner rather than later.