I agree that kids might reduce your short-term happiness. You're sleep deprived, they're expensive, and damn do they make some noise... On the other hand I've

I agree that kids might reduce your short-term happiness. You're sleep deprived, they're expensive, and damn do they make some noise... On the other hand I've never had so many feelings of deep satisfaction as with my kids. It all depends on how you define happiness. Happiness = easier life, more money, more sleep. ... or you could say Happiness = building, nurturing, giving, sacrifice. Both are true and valid, and neither needs to be judged. I just want to point out that the decision to have kids isn't necessarily about rational happiness-maximizing choice. #3 is due in April, wish me luck!