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I have two younger kids and it's great and exhausting at the same time. But it did not change the motivation to do other things in the evening, when they are as
by zubspace 6y ago
I have two younger kids and it's great and exhausting at the same time. But it did not change the motivation to do other things in the evening, when they are asleep.
I still have week-long phases of ultra hyper focus and phases of absolute bat-shit boredom where I binge-watch or play everything half interesting.
It's a personality thing. I have a real hard time doing something evenly across a long time. Either I give it all I have until I power-out or I leave it aside and rot.
Kids don't help in this regard. The only thing which changed is that I have less time to work on personal projects. I tell myself, that I'm better at it because time got really valuable, but actually I know that I'm still the same lazy bugger I was like before.
- onemoresoop 6y agoI am like that too but to me having a child has helped me narrow down on interests and made me focused on what is important for now, the life's experience. I used to be a lot less satisfied before this stage in life, now I am really content.