> [traumatic events] only return to bother us if there is some behavior that was contrary to the individuals values. Or perhaps, a bit more generally, if the e

> [traumatic events] only return to bother us if there is some behavior that was contrary to the individuals values. Or perhaps, a bit more generally, if the event causes a significant degree of cognitive dissonance. This would include behavior by one who later suffers PTSD, as you say, but it might also include events that were simply totally outside what a victim expected could possibly happen to them.